But a little background first.... French homes are, generally speaking, smaller by American standards. When we bought our 4 bedroom French-style townhome, we decided it would be sufficient for our needs. Only one day, we knocked a wall down to turn two small bedrooms into one giant master bedroom for the king and queen. We have absolutely loved it!
Alex, our only boy, has his own bedroom; and Elena and Gabriela share the original master bedroom with each other. Our first thought when we found out I was expecting was to put the wall back up between the two bedrooms. But in the first place, I just couldn't imagine living in one of the tiny bedrooms that existed before, and secondly, to move back into the original master bedroom, where our girls now live, seemed like such a huge project (i.e., re-build a wall, tear down old wallpaper in three bedrooms, re-decorate three bedrooms, etc., etc., etc.). Restraints on our abilities, time and budget would have made those projects nearly impossible before the arrival of the baby.
The only answer? A baby nook in our master bedroom! Sam wasn't too hot on the idea at first and we'll actually have to see how things work out once our baby is finally here (i.e., night-time activity: nursing, crying, etc., etc.).
But little by little throughout my pregnancy, I've worked on our baby nook. It's been a long process of sorting, rearranging, getting rid of a lot of stuff and perhaps a few tears of frustration and a few more of joy! So here it is... along with some of the things I did to make room for our baby boy.
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One of the initial steps was moving all of our belongings to one side of the room: bed, nightstands, closet... We wanted to see what space we had to work with. This meant getting rid of a bookshelf, finding new homes for a lot of books, and moving a large computer desk to a different area in the house.
The leather recliner recently came upstairs, which was such a sweet and unexpected treat from my loving husband. I really really wanted it upstairs for night-time nursings, but it meant a lot of additional rearranging.... He surprised me last Saturday afternoon and I was overjoyed! There's my new Boppy! Ready for nursing!
Moving all our belongings to one side made it easier to move baby furniture into the other half. The changing table came from Ikea and the bassinet is on loan from a friend. When the baby gets old enough we'll simply replace the bassinet with a small French-style crib, another gift from a sweet friend.
This dresser used to be mine. I stripped it of all my belongings and gathered up from around the house my Precious Moments and baby picture frames, with photos of the children when they were small, to make it sweet for a baby nook. The girls helped me make the confetti garland last year, out of scrapbook paper, flower cut-outs and yarn.
Early in the year, I went through my closet and dresser and pulled out 5 large bags of clothes that I never wore! I gave it to some friends and suddenly it was easy to empty out all the drawers of this dresser. I keep all my clothes in my closet and the dresser was emptied and cleaned to keep our baby's clothes.
We are so blessed because a friend of mine who was making an international move gave me all of her baby boy clothes and everything was so cute and in perfect condition. I washed it recently and the girls helped me fold and arrange it in the drawers.
This closet used to contain my girls' dress-up clothes. We decided they didn't use them often enough and so we also prepared two big boxes to give to a cute little friend of ours, who was thrilled with her new treasures. A lot of these outfits belonged to Alex and I've kept them all these years!
Limited space and a new member of the family on the way? I've learned that there are countless creative solutions to make room! We have found new homes for so much of the stuff that we had cluttering up our home this year, that it has made me reflect on the excesses of modern living. I love the simplicity and airiness of less stuff! And even when it was hard to get rid of a few things, I just had to remember that a little person is so much more important than "stuff"!
Do you have limited space in your home? What are some of the ways you've adapted? And for those of you who have used a baby nook, how did things work out at night?
I'm off to take a sweet nap before I got pick up my children from school. Happy Tuesday!
Bisous xoxo
It looks lovely and you have inspired me to have a good old clear out. Best wishes for the next few weeks xxx
ReplyDeleteThank you Jacqui for the well wishes! I definitely need them! xoxo
DeleteWe "share" our bedroom with our little one. Works very well, but we do have an agreement. He won't get up if the baby cries and I won't move an inch if the big one calls (unless he is asking for assistance). When A. was still tiny I would always keep a spare diaper and wipes right next to the bed and not even get to the changing table ... Up until she started rolling over she slept just right with me in my bed. Now she is sleeping in a crib next to my bed for her nap and from when she is going to bed til I follow. The rest of the night she still sleeps in our bed :)
ReplyDeleteWow! We've tried bed sharing and it just doesnt work for us. Which is why it was so important to create an actual space!
DeleteWhen our house was built we had them add a baby nook/closet to it. It's a closet with double folding doors that is just big enough for the crib and a little extra space on one side. We had some problems with the doors, so up until a couple weeks ago we didn't have doors on it. It's worked fine for us so far, although Anson is still not sleeping through the night...I think we need to let him cry it out a bit more. We've had our three youngest each in our room as newborns. If they can wake up in the night and see you in bed, it can be a problem, but you can always get a screen or something to put up in front of the crib. We moved when Becca was about 9 months old and felt like we had SO much more room when we were able to put her mini-crib into the master bathroom. The things we do to make room...
ReplyDeleteI prefer having newborns in the room with us because we don't have to go as far to get them in the night. I have never been able to do much bedsharing wtih an infant, though. I wake up stiff and uncomfortable from holding still all night.
Creative solutions! Yes, we'll have to figure out a way to hide the crib when the baby gets a bit older! Thanks for sharing Polly! It's always good to hear from you!
DeleteWhat an organized and sweet little baby nook! Your duvet cover is lovely, btw. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Angela, nice to have you visit my little corner of the web! bisous xoxo
DeleteAdorable! Seems to have fit very well! Our house in Maine is teeny, tiny. Our house in Canada is huge. The Maine house is often so cluttered that we recently sent tons of toys to charity. My older daughter's toddler bed fits snuggly behind our bedroom door. Yes, she sleeps in the same room as us. It's tough only having two bedrooms!
ReplyDeleteComforting to know we are not alone! Challenging but teaches us to live a little more simply!
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